Others needs first Nurturing Don’t be chubby Calm/collected/poised Skinny (but not too skinny) Fit but muscled Experienced Be a bit stupid Dumb Not above the dudes/not smart independence Sexy But sexy Dresses Hair down Timeless Caring nurturing emotional cougar youthful don’t age nice Cook Clean/Iron Strong Beautiful Submissive Quiet Less confrontational Take up less space draw attention Empowered Inclusive sexist Work out Pure Virginal perfect Acting/Dressing in way that is sexually appealing Long straight hair opinionated voice much calm Prude