quit_my_job? go_back_to_school? go_on_a_diet? break_my_bad_habit? break_up_with_my_boyfriend/girlfriend? get_out_of_the_military? quit_illicit_drugs? date_my_boss? stop_stalking_my love_interest? quit_grad_school? have_the_fourth_child_my_husband_wants? quit_the_Mormon_faith? become_a_Christian?