Used words
field
by
describing
the
phenomenon
of
shame.
What
is
there
about
shame
that
makes
it
important
and
why
did
you
choose
to
investigate
it?”
NATHANSON:
For
some
years
I
had
been
occupied
with
problem
what
now
called
“interaffectivity”
way
each
us
gets
caught
up
in
emotionality
others.
At
time
(1982)
thought
myself
as
a
clinician
no
scholarly
identity
wrote
my
ideas
more
get
feedback
from
few
friends
than
any
publication.
One
traditionally
trained
psychoanalyst
said
“Oh
you’re
writing
empathy.
There’s
lot
psychoanalytic
literature”
rushed
library
check
out
references
index
writings
which
amused
enlightened
me.
A
senior
analyst
friend
suggested
recent
paper
Michael
Franz
Basch
put
me
on
work
Tomkins.
same
time
decided
concept
(which
broke
standard
theory
suggesting
affective
resonance
normal
only
an
“empathic
wall”
are
we
protected
unwanted
others
our
milieu
who
broadcast
their
own
affect
sense
self
must
be
this
empathic
wall
lest
taken
over
those
around
us)
scrolling
through
list
all
known
emotions
see
if
idea
worked
for
them.
When
got
letter
“S”
ran
into
family
was
literally
shocked
realize
not
know
absolutely
nothing
shame
but
never
heard
discussed
case
conference
or
presented
article
defenses.
made
detour
affect
resonance
wall
started
study
After
reading
everything
available
English
French
literature
(about
85
papers
handful
books)
came
conclusion
sizeable
body
information
even
though
nearly
every
author
had
like
me
come
upon
either
accident
surprise.
Most
authors
were
almost
totally
unaware
written
shame!
As
understand
ubiquity
experience
real
nature
ignorance
common
culture
therapists
spring.
It
seemed
reasonable
do
something
latter
problem
end
organized
symposium
1984
annual
meeting
American
Psychiatric
Association
at
bunch
would
discuss
work.
acted
moderator
deferring
colleagues
done
so
much
area
calling
attention
This
became
basis
first
book
“The
Many
Faces
Shame.”
Paradoxically
famous
scholar
whom
assigned
task
lead
chapter
(on
development
childhood
adolescence)
told
he
single
how
chapter
late
game
left
job
playing
catchup.
To
surprise
already
affect
its
relation
proved
useful
result
effort
expert.
In
one
swoop
word
processor
went
being
novice
impressario
“major
theorist”
without
slightest
intent
either.
step
process
increasingly
convinced
importance
Tomkins
“shame-humiliation”
role
societies.
Our
shared
contemporary
world
worse
accepted
responsibilty
dissemination
information.”
BOL:
Your
answer
provides
rich
set
choices
follow-up.
could
ask
interaffectivity
Basch
Tomkins—and
due
course
will.
now
wonder
neglected
emotions?
Remember
began
wrong
reasons.
research
looking
variable
tried
another
therapeutic
maneuver
go
away
interested
sociology/anthropology
honor
vs.
anything
disprove
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