For years I have watched some of my closest friends struggle with infertility. I’m 43 years old now at the height career married three elementary-aged children. Decades ago can vividly recall late night conversations in college and even high school about how we wanted our lives to unfold. Little did know least half us would begin fertility problems after graduating starting careers. Personally problem appeared be much worse among African American friends. It has been quietly heartbreaking so many ways.